Wondering if He Is Into You? Well wonder no more because there are more than a few good ways to know for sure! His body language, for example, can speak more than words and learning how to interpret it could save you a lot of troubles, a lot of sleepless nights and, of course, a lot of nerves. Yes, there are plenty of small clues you’ll need to keep an eye on in order to determine if he is into you but, once you know exactly what to look for you’ll actually find it very easy! So, are you ready to stop guessing? Well, do keep reading, dear, as I’m about to list 8 moves your man is bound to make if he is into you!
1. RAISED EYEBROW(S)
People who make their living studying human behavior have noticed something rather interesting – men tend to raise their eyebrows whenever they see something (or, in this case, somebody) they like. Raised eyebrows make his eyes appear bigger and the light reflecting in them makes them appear brighter, shinier and more attractive. This is one of those smart tricks Mother Nature uses to make sure the person one admires sees all his best features and, although this movement might not last more than a few seconds, that’s still plenty of time for you to take notice.
2. LEANING FORWARD
Oh, this tip is definitely going to help you determine whether he is into you and I strongly advise you to remember it! Observe the way he acts when he’s around you because his body might say much more than his lips are prepared to! Whether you’re sitting across from each other or standing really close, he is supposed to be turned towards you, his torso leaning forward. This shows that he wants to be close to you. If he’s looking around, wiggling in his chair too much, if he turns sideways or turns his back on you, you can rest assured he’s a lost case, sister, which pretty much means that you should stop wasting your time.
3. “OPEN” BODY
When a woman crosses her legs it doesn’t mean much but when a man does such thing he is actually telling you that he isn’t willing to open up or let you get close to him. Crossed arms are also not a good sign either as that shows he’s trying to put up a wall and make himself unavailable to you. Pay attention to how relaxed he is when being around you because, although he might feel and act a bit strange at first, his body is supposed to relax, turn towards you and kind of “open up” as you get to know each other better.
4. TRYING TO LOOK GOOD FOR YOU
If he is into you, he will definitely want to look good for YOU and you’ll notice that by paying attention to how often he fixes his hair/collar/tie when you’re around. I’m not talking about narcissistic egomaniacs whose sole purpose in life is to look good, oh no, no, no – I’m talking about real men here! You see, even an average Joe who, in any other occasion, couldn’t care less about his looks will feel the need to “fix” something when trying to leave a good impression on a woman he likes and, although he might do that secretly (when the object of his admiration is in the ladies room), the chances of her noticing it on her way back are more than good.
5. LETTING YOU NOTICE THAT HE’S CHECKING YOU OUT
He will check you out top to bottom, allowing himself the liberty of letting you SEE that! You shouldn’t feel like Columbus, though, because your discovery isn’t that grand! The truth is that he has checked you out many times before and the only reason for which he’s doing it now is to let you know that he’s not only looking but enjoying the view as well!
6. TOUCHING HIS FACE
If your date is touching his face, ears or rubbing his chin you have a good reason to believe he is into you! This is how men react in moments when they are nervous and excited and, according to experts, it has something to do with their skin being more sensitive to touch at those times.
7. TRYING TO TOUCH YOU
He’ll touch your hand while trying to explain something, lean forward to tuck in a lock that has gone wild, admire you bracelet or even your nail art just so he would have a reason to touch you again without appearing too forward. Now, don’t pretend like you haven’t noticed (or even done) this before! LOL!
8. OFFER TO LEND YOU SOMETHING
A true gentleman will offer his coat/jacket/blazer if you’re cold but, should he insist on you keeping it, you should know he is into you. This heroic move won’t only put him in your good graces but guarantee he’ll get the chance to see you again too because…well… he’ll need his jacket back eventually.
No room for doubt now because the case is pretty clear – if your date starts demonstrating any or all of these “moves”, you will be able to read them like a pro and know that he is into you long before he actually decides to put it in words! Pretty neat, isn’t it? Go ahead, give it a shot and let me know which one of these clues gave him away and made you absolutely and positively sure that he is into you?
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